The Power of Secrets

Once I heard Chogyal Namkhai Norbu tell a story of a man with a horrible debilitating illness.  The man went to a spiritual teacher and asked for help.  The teacher listened to the man tell about his problem and then told him he had a secret practice that would correct it completely.  He told him it was too secret to teach in the city.  They would have to go to an isolated mountain.  They scheduled a time for the next week to go.

When the day arrived, they went through a forest and climbed a mountain until they came to an open space.  The clearing was far away from any civilization and they had not seen anyone in hours.  Still, the teacher instructed the man to go through the surrounding forest and make sure no one was around.  Then the teacher whispered the secret practice in the man’s ear.  He gave him the mantra “om mani padme hum”.  Om mani padme hum mantra from Wikipedia

The man was surprised.  Although, mantra literally means secret words, this was a well know mantra in his country.  People wrote it on banners and rocks, inscribed it into jewelry, and recited it commonly.  He was momentarily confused, but considering the seriousness of the teacher and the effort he had gone to, he chose to treat this practice as a wish-fulfilling jewel.

He began to practice diligently with the mantra.  He guarded his practice with the utmost secrecy.  It wasn’t long before he noticed results.  His illness was indeed completely cured and as he continued to practice he realized even more precious results.

I have been contemplating the idea and value of secret practices for at least a year now.  I was taught that secret practices are not only secret because people don’t tell them to just anybody, but they are secret because if a common person happens upon them, they would just dismiss them as worthless.  Indeed, one of the cautions of sharing a sacred practice with someone that cannot see the value in it is that they will “damage” the practice and hurt themselves by disregarding its value.

What if, our teacher in the story had simply told the man that he should repeat “om mani padme hum” a bizzilion times?  He most probably would have walked away feeling “blown off”  and thinking, “That ole’ mantra is not enough to cure me of my illness.  Everybody knows it.”   Instead, due to the empowerment, the potency of the mantra came through and helped him.

I am appreciative that many secret practices are becoming public these days.  I have two books written by Padmasambhava that state they are sealed (meaning secret).  Yet, I was able to purchase these from Amazon. And, did you know, that yoga is a secret teaching in Tibet. It is only taught to select people after decades of study?

I have always felt that the idea of “secret” is just a useless construct.  All information should be freely available.  However, I am questioning that now.  I do a Taoist practice that has helped me profoundly.  It was not taught to me as secret, but after sharing the practice with a few people I began to think it should be secret.  It is a value thing.  If I share a practice with someone that can completely change their life, it impacts me when they disregard it.  Or perhaps the issue is really that when I freely give away what is valuable I am the one devaluing it and devaluing myself.

More food for thought.

The issue is discernment.  Am I able to acknowledge and work with the power of the mind?  I am reminded of the chapter, Social Skills, in Deconditioning Ground which deals with the same issue of working with what is instead of denying it or pretending it isn’t so.  People do value things more if they have to spend money for it or exert effort to get it.  While I appreciate things that are given to me for free, many people will get more value if they have to pay for the same things.

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What if the universe has more for you?

copper US penny I’ve talked to a couple of people lately with similar stories.  They are in situations where they are holding onto work, relationships, ideas and/or situations that are not quite working for them.  While their decisions may be completely appropriate it reminds me of a story I heard years ago.

The woman that told the story talked about how she used to be in a relationship with a man that was using drugs and alcohol. He would be mean to her and she thought he might be having sex with other women.  When he was out, she spent a lot of time begging God to bring him home safely to her.  She desperately wanted to keep him as her husband and would ask God over and over for that.  silver sunshine minting mexican silver us dimes

She explained the situation like this:  I was begging God for a penny.  All I could see was the penny and I was desperate for it.  But God had a $100 in his other hand that he wanted to give me.  I kept asking for the penny.  Until I was willing to admit the penny was not enough, God could not give me the “big money”.

If you have a situation that isn’t ideal, even if you think it serves you, consider the possibility that the universe is encouraging you let go of that and take hold of even a better situation.  Why settle for less?  How are you rationalizing holding onto something that is not spectacular?

If you are thinking:  He/She is nice to be around sometimesConsider: What would it take to be with someone that is nice all the time? What if a better relationship is just waiting for me to acknowledge that I deserve more?  What if by staying with this person I am refusing the happiness that is available to me?

If you are thinking:  I have to keep this job or situation because I need the money.  Consider:  In what ways am I refusing the “big money” the universe wants to give me?  What if I refuse to sacrifice any part of me for money?  What if my views about what it takes to make money or get a job done are limited?

If you are thinking:  I am a a victim of this person’s actions, or some physical injury or limitation.  Consider:  How did I create this?  How does this serve me?  What do I know that I am pretending not to know or denying that I know?  What can I choose that will change this right away?

If you are thinking:  This is impossible to change.  Consider:  What else is possible?®  What would it take to change this?  How does this serve me?

When you ask the questions, do not look for an answer.  Simply be aware of the energy that arises.  These questions can often clear the unconsciousness that keeps us in situations that are no longer beneficial to us.  Asking questions, without coming to conclusions, is a powerful way to increase our awareness.

I have always lived in the question.  I am curious about what is truly motivating my actions.  I want to credit Access Consciousness for my recent expansion of using the “living in the question tool”.  I am offering free Intro to Access Bars talks on Sept 11, 2015 at 7pm and Sept 20, 2015 at 1pm if you would like to learn more.  See the Events calendar for details.

 

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